When I was pregnant with my twins I scoured the internet for resources. I wanted to learn everything I possibly could to help us (hubby too!) prepare for their arrival. What did I find…not much. Apparently after you have twins you don’t have a lot of time to write about having twins (I get it now!)
What I did find were other twin mommas who so graciously shared the real and the raw about raising two babies at one time. I struggled with things like how to cook dinner during the witching hour, how to consume 2500+ calories while pregnant, and how to manage going out in public when they started walking (in two different directions!). These mommas formed my tribe, and I thank Jesus for them and their quiet encouragement they gave, especially during the first year.
When you learn you are expecting, a million questions go through your mind. When you find out you are expecting twins, your legs shake and you smile (you also hold your husbands hand and squeeze it till he’s lost circulation) while you digest the big news! You are thrilled, and wowed all at once. You ask yourself, how did this happen…and you trust God has a lot more confidence then you have in yourself.
I knew having twins would be one of the most rewarding and challenging experiences of my life. I wouldn’t change a thing about our journey, and in fact we loved this part of our journey so much that we went on to have another baby. Child rearing has made the relationship between my sweet husband and I that much stronger. When you get up together during the middle of the night, when the rest of the world is asleep, and each feed a small (4.5 lbs.) baby, something magical happens. All the world is silent in that moment, you make eye contact (because you don’t dare say anything to wake those babies up even more) and you realize your family is your world.
So to all the mommas and daddies out there wondering if they are doing it right, waking up in the middle of the night, gathering your tribe around the table with a homemade meal, and looking for the answers…keep going! As my dear friend Dr. Seuss says, “to the world you may be one person; but to one person you may by the world.”